"let me be very frank with you..."
"Whatever I want to tell to the people, I tell on them on their face....."
~These are the lines you listen everyday !
But the bitter truth is, none of these so called 'frank people' accept the frankness of others, when directed towards them. When it is from them, it is the world class advice, and when it is for them, they called it as Arrogance.
When the facts are expressed FRANKLY, they are difficult to accept. So how can others accept our frankness, which is nothing, but just our opinion.
FRANKNESS is not at all a problem, its just the way our frankness is delivered, that is the problem.
Our Frankness, maybe (Strong MAYBE) have some logic behind it, but the way it is delivered to the people often hurts.
Whenever you are hunted by arrow, will u ever sit and think what thing or raw material is used to make it ? Ask this to yourself, and obviously, the answer comes out to be NO !
You will surely run to take a revenge back !!
The same way, frankness, in terms of words, hurts!!
We too little care for there meanings, we never realize what those were meant to convey !!
So, Its not only about how you cook, it also matters how you serve !
So, only for components of communications matter :
Now, Frankly telling,
Only a good communication will make your relation stronger !!
"Whatever I want to tell to the people, I tell on them on their face....."
~These are the lines you listen everyday !
But the bitter truth is, none of these so called 'frank people' accept the frankness of others, when directed towards them. When it is from them, it is the world class advice, and when it is for them, they called it as Arrogance.
When the facts are expressed FRANKLY, they are difficult to accept. So how can others accept our frankness, which is nothing, but just our opinion.
FRANKNESS is not at all a problem, its just the way our frankness is delivered, that is the problem.
Our Frankness, maybe (Strong MAYBE) have some logic behind it, but the way it is delivered to the people often hurts.
Whenever you are hunted by arrow, will u ever sit and think what thing or raw material is used to make it ? Ask this to yourself, and obviously, the answer comes out to be NO !
You will surely run to take a revenge back !!
The same way, frankness, in terms of words, hurts!!
We too little care for there meanings, we never realize what those were meant to convey !!
So, Its not only about how you cook, it also matters how you serve !
So, only for components of communications matter :
What you say
How you say
When you say
When you stop....
Now, Frankly telling,
Only a good communication will make your relation stronger !!
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