When Everyday Objects Come Alive & Amazing!

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One night :)

I asked her  to go out for night-out. She reacted  as other typical-girls would do. She had some sort of feeling of excitement, but obviously, it was tough for her to manage.  But, she knew how to handle that too !
Sometimes ,some  girls are intelligent !
I called up Rahul to ask him to lend his bike for the night and he gave me his FZ for the night.  I managed to skip my night meals at my home telling my mom that I have already eaten something from outside and was going to stay at Rahul’s home for the night.
I picked her nearby her home at around 10 and didn’t ask her for the reasons she gave at home. She was wearing a simple yellow sleeveless kurti with a jean.  Her silver colored bangles drew all my attention.  I said, “Just like I always want to see you!”
She smiled and jumped in the bike. I asked her, “Where?”
She leaned forward near to my ears, “To the world’s most beautiful place.”
“At your service madam!”, I started the bike.
I drove long towards the outskirts of the city. I was heading to RDB fort, nearby Ludhiana on the national highway, with my love hugging me in the most romantic way!

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Itne bure the hum nahi ;)

Zara nazar utha ke dekho

Baithe hai hum yahin

Bekhabar humse kyun ho

Itne bure bhi hum nahi

Zara nazar utha ke dekho

Baithe hai hum yahin

Bekhabar humse kyun ho

Itne bure bhi hum nahi

Na na .. hmm ..

here is the song- 

http://youtu.be/061IxR85Jxo

Zamane ki baaton mein uljo na

Hai ye aasan jaan na

Khud se jo agar tum pucho

Hai hum tumhare ke nahi

Teri aankhon ka jadoo

Poori duniya pe hai

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How to Criticize and be loved for it !

Do you know the feeling when you want criticize someone’s behavior, but you’re scared of damaging your relationship with that person?

You’re right to be cautious: criticism is a double-edged sword. It can be immensely helpful, but also devastatingly hurtful.

In this post, I’d like to give you eight tips and ideas on how you can offer criticism as constructively as possible — and leave the other person not angry, but thankful for your support.

1. Be polite.

Sometimes, we criticize because we’re angry. In these situations, we often don’t feel like being polite. Even one single signal of impoliteness will greatly hamper our chances of the criticism being taken constructively.

I’m not only talking about rude words or insults here. We also need to avoid sending less obvious signals such as forgetting to knock on the door before entering or interrupting the other person in the wrong moment.

2. Be gentle and kind.

Let’s take this a step further. If we want the other party to really take our words to heart, then we must show that we are on their side.

One big step to achieving this is to be gentle and kind. Smile a lot. Talk soothingly. Employ friendly, relaxed body language.

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The letters, where will they go ?

I have composed hundreds
of intricate love letters,
with your name written in neat cursive
at the top.
I speak of my swollen heart
and the way your tender hands
feel so natural
against my skin.
I fabricate memories
of the sound of your laughter
as though it is a love song
that frequents my days.
Envelopes are sealed
and kissed with a stamp
to be sent off
to a nonexistent address....

So dear love, whoever you are, when you come to me, please reply !

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I'm long gone !

I do not wish to bind you, if you don't wish to be bound,
And if you find you need me, you know where I'll be found,
Somewhere in your dreaming, I will wait without a sound !

I haven't asked for anything, I've given all I have freely,
Seems that wasn't enough for you, and for that I am sorry,
You've come and gone so often, I think it's time for you to see !

Loving is a two way street, and so I can't be holding on,
So next time you come knocking Baby, you'll find that I'm long gone...

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